Picture Courtesy: originally uploaded on flickr.com by Marlis1- in SwitzerlandWhy we love them!!
In this world, everyone of us have dearest ones.. whenever someone says: 'Please take of your health! You are very important to me' - tears come automatically in the eyes by listening that!!
What is this? why do we love them? we are selfish to all of the world? but our heart stops beating when we understand their love and care for us! We need this love! Why?
We can solve this mystery..very easily! just by stopping by for some time and reflecting upon our emotions. Now I personally tell you, "We are grossly impoverished of Love in this world.. because we have a very short circle.. Love is like an oxygen.. we can die emotionally if it stops reaching in our lungs!! We really need our loved ones to love us!! Love is a magic which energizes a mom to make her babbling baby say for the first time 'ma.. ma'! Mom and child have a deep psycological attachment and emotional synchronization of mind, heart and being, and they convey their emotions to each other by using facial expressions and smiles.. this smile is very important for her to accoutre her baby with emotional confidence and feeling of warmth... the life! unless this smile this flower may whither away soon! The mama is love.. Love, love, love! All we need is love! We can't live without it!
Love is so much important in our life, we can see its examples in every important moment which empowered us to feel confidence and happiness. All our miseries actually are due to missing of love!
A boy loved a girl.. and she was normal in beauty! He passed some time and they got close so much that one live in other's heart. Later on, he let go all the chances of having the beautiful one!
Why? which power made him adamant to his love only. That is Love! Love is enough!
There is a famous Pujabi language song to be heard in Pakistani wedding:
Kala Shah Kala
Kala Shah Kala mera kala hai dil dar
Gorean no paraN karo
Mein aap sone di taar
Gorean no paraN karo
Black King Black
Black King Black my lover is black
keep the white ones away
I am myself his connection
keep the white ones away
(in punjab, sometimes colour complexion is the meter of beauty judgement among many people. But this song implies on the importance of love instead of averting towards the more beautiful!)
Our beloved ones are enough for us! We need them. We stay happy, no matter they are not the best dazzling qualities, but they are every thing for us! Why they are enough? why we love them? we are actually feel mentally and emotionally alienated from the strange company and people, so there creates a wide emotional gap in our heart, we can die with cold..! but our beloved ones fill that gap with the warmth of their existence! We never feel strange to them.. we share with them the similar basic cords of heart, which are intermingled, overlapped and tied with each other. It keeps our being perfumed. So, stay in touch to your relatives and beloved ones.. that is real life!
As there says a sufi poetry in Urdu:
kyun dekh k hm ko tm yu ank churatey ho
jb dil me hi rehto ho phir aankh sey kia parda
they ham bhi kabhi terey, gardish hey zamaney ki,
Mehram to puraney hain ,Aa ab to galey ml ja,
kia mj se chupatey ho, chilman sy lgey kyun ho
hm dekh to letey hain rukh aap ka thorra sa
- Syed Muhammad Shah Zaman Gilani Chisti!
Why you avoid after seeing me
As you stay in my heart, then what is this kind of veil from eye
sometimes I was also yours, change is brought by time
I am old acquaintance, come do embrace me now
what you hide from me, why you stay beside the veil
we do catch a little of your sight
